Finding Peace Through Allowing
Sometimes you’re controlling, leading, directing and forcing…and sometimes you’re allowing yourself to feel and be changed, and you’re even surrendering into the deeper allowing of the unknown to effect change. This dance between controlling and allowing is the most powerful when you are connecting in the moment to experience.
Allow yourself to actually experience the experience. Embrace all of it.
Experience without any attachment , so you can actually know and grow. Try your best not to judge, criticize, or blame yourself or another, because we all are playing a role in each other’s life. Do not look at experiences as lessons and do not attach meaning to a negative experience as there must be a reason for this. You need to drop the belief that there is always a reason or lesson, because you set the precedent that all experiences are lessons. When you do this it sets the precedent that future experiences should be another dreaded lesson which put you in a box of limitation and reduces the potentials that the universe brings to you.
In my book Allowing God, we write about Humpty Dumpty and the wisdom behind the rhyme. We all have had Humpty Dumpty moments when we have felt that no matter how much we tried or have had someone else try, we could not put ourselves back together again. Stop trying, and see what kind of omelet you are being scrambled up to be…and entertain the idea that maybe God is the chef! Just perhaps, it is the answer to your prayer that leads to having your desires…Allow!
And realize this…
Allowing is not being a victim or living in a state of martyrdom! Allowing is not a sign of weakness but of strength and awareness, because you are transforming and that takes strength and awareness. You are letting go of an old mold of you, cracking your shell, and becoming something different…a better you to be able to have your desired futures.
To learn more about allowing the wisdoms of the journey of a fulfilling life, get my book, Allowing God and the Spirituality of Success handbook on www.robertnovak.com.